Have you read our first ADVICE BOX question: Why do women buy shoes that only appeal to other women?? My shoes are case and point. 3 out of 4 guys at this party don’t like my shoes. All of the girls LOVE them. At the end of the day, I bought them for me and I adore them. I’ll tell you this much, I’m loving looking at them more than wearing them at this point. Ahhh.