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How To Get More Luxury from Your Vacation Without Spending a Lot – Part 3 of 6 in a series by Gary Leff

April 12th, 2013 No Comments

Capella Pedregal Cabo San Lucas Mexico

Gary’s Tip #3:   Think off-season. 

For parents, it’s hard to travel any time other than school vacations. Peak season is called that for a reason; everyone is venturing out for the good weather.  At this time, even inexpensive places get pricey and get too busy to provide great service. I hate having to get up early to head down to the beach to reserve a beach chair!

So for those of you who aren’t so encumbered take advantage of the time when families aren’t crowding airports and accommodations.    Hotels are more peaceful, less full, and they tend to offer great discounts.  You’ll find more than just deals on room rates.  Spa and dining establishments give incentives to keep not just you, but more so their employees happy.

Combining off-season or shoulder season timing with my previous tips , I’ve done really well.  For instance, the Le Meridien in Khao Lak, Thailand (an hour’s drive from Phuket) often offers standalone oceanfront villas with their own pool for as little as $250 per night from May through August.  And in Las Vegas the season is the weekend, rates are much less on weekdays.  A work colleague was recently planning to stay at Treasure Island for $139 per night.  Since it was during the week I found her a great rate of $199 at the Four Seasons instead. As I instructed you to do, I told her to book through her travel agent that was a Four Seasons Preferred Partner so she received daily breakfast (choice of buffet or room service!), a room upgrade, and a $100 spa credit.

For other posts in this series and more tips from Gary, click here.  If you travel often, follow his blog for regular tips and current deals.  The man is an expert at discovering loopholes, online mistakes the airlines and hotels have to honor, and how to manipulate the fine print. You can feel free to tweet him questions @GaryLeff.  He’s super sweet so don’t be shy.

(Photo: Mary’s Suite at Capella Pedregal, Cabo San Lucas Mexico. Her review here.)

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How To Get More Luxury from Your Vacation Without Spending a Lot – Part 2 of 6 in a series by Gary Leff

April 5th, 2013 No Comments

W Resort Koh Samui bedroom

Gary’s Tip #2 How you book your hotel matters. 

Searching for rates on the discount sites (Expedia, Orbitz, etc) is a good way to start your hotel search, but booking through them is not always best.  Once you find the hotel you want, go to the hotel’s site to see if they offer a comparable price.  If  they do, book direct. Hotels can pay 20% or more commissions to those travel agencies, and since you’re a less profitable guest to them, they may put you in less desirable rooms.

Wait, don’t click so fast though.  Before you just book on Hilton.com, Marriott.com, or Hyatt.com … see whether booking through one of their preferred partners gets you a better deal.

You’ll often find the same rates for luxury hotels, but with added amenities if your hotel participates in the Visa Signature Hotels Program (any Visa Signature credit card holder qualifies), American Express Fine Hotels and Resorts
(American Express Platinum and Centurion cardholders), Virtuoso (some travel agents belong to their network and can get you their rates), or chain-specific programs like Four Seasons Preferred Partners (again, offered by select travel agents).  Booking through these channels often gets you free upgrades, free breakfast, late checkout, and possibly an additional amenity like a free spa treatment or $100 credit to use in the hotel’s restaurants — without paying more.

For other posts in this series and more tips from Gary, click here.  If you travel often, follow his blog for regular tips and current deals.  The man is an expert at discovering loopholes, online mistakes the airlines and hotels have to honor, and how to manipulate the fine print. You can feel free to tweet him questions @GaryLeff.  He’s super sweet so don’t be shy.

(Photo: Mary Rambin, W Resort Koh Samui, see my review of the resort and video tour here.)

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You CAN get a solid workout in on a family vacation. I’ve got the numbers to prove it!

July 2nd, 2012 2 Comments

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Last week I was on vacation with family and let me tell you, it’s the most exhausting thing I think I’ve ever done.  I need a vacation after being on vacation!  With the kids up at the crack of dawn, everyone wanting to go in different directions, plus the environmental elements -  98 degree blistering heat and ocean salt water – I was hardly able to move by 3pm.

BUT! I felt better the days I was able to exercise in the morning or late afternoon. Considering the exhaustion, I’m not sure why, my legs were dying after countless hours at the beach….but I really did appreciate getting my heart rate up and clearing my head.

Because we had kids with us, I knew I would be active anyway, but additionally I had a plan and a goal.  The week before we left, I worked out hard Monday through Friday without taking a day off (which is usually Thursday).  Because my body was worn out by the weekend, I was happy to give myself a much needed 2 day break when we began the trip.  I brought my heart rate monitor and decided I would do whatever workout felt right and would strive to burn at least 400 calories in 1 hour.  Here’s how my workouts went:

  • Monday:  Pure Barre class and 1 mile run (approx 580 calories)
  • Tuesday: 1 mile run, lifting chest and back, 1 mile run (approx 500 calories)
  • Wednesday: Nothing
  • Thursday: 30 minutes on the treadmill, yoga (approx 600 calories)
  • Friday: Nothing
  • Saturday: 1 mile run, shoulders and abs, 1 mile run (approx 650 calories)

For all 4 workouts I actually exceeded my calorie burn.  Even though the Pure Barre class was easy and totally boring, it still helped me reach my goal.  The outdoor runs in the heat were really challenging and it helped me mentally to know they weren’t very long.  The treadmill workout was a killer because I decided to do running uphill intervals.

Precor Treadmill stats

So in 30 minutes I stayed in zones 4 and 5 (aerobic) with my heart rate and burned 422 calories, which is pretty amazing for me.  On Saturday, when I took the headline photo at the top, you can see I burned 687 calories in about an hour and a half.

NOW I KNOW WHAT YOU’RE THINKING:  Of course I found time to workout because I always do.  Normal people don’t do that on vacation.  I have to tell you, that’s just not true.  In the mornings, mommies and daddies were pounding the pavement on rigorous runs and packing themselves into the gym to get in their workout before the day began.

Runners on vacation

Trust me, I know it’s hard to get going, I had to force myself to exercise, and I never regretted it!  If you you need some inspiration, browse my archives for exercises and tips and click here for my vacation workouts.  You have options, you just have to want to take them.

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An quick spritz will save your vacation tan

June 26th, 2012 1 Comment

L'Oreal Sublime Bronze

I this spray to maintain my summer glow.  Over the years, they’ve been improving it so there is no way it streaks or turns you orange.  After you dry off out of the shower, spray yourself down, wait only a minute, and then moisturize.

The key is that you really need a base tan before you can use it.

One can runs about $10-12 at CVS or Walgreens.

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When in Rome, get outta there!

May 25th, 2012 1 Comment

Over the past few weeks friends have been telling me they are off to Rome and Italy for vacation.  (Lucky devils.)  My concern for them was that they had booked so many days in Rome and not enough time in smaller towns. While I have great respect for Rome and truly love its history, the metropolitan life set amongst the ruins just doesn’t do it for me, especially in comparison to the rest of Italy.  It shouldn’t shock you I feel the same way about Paris, French countryside, and Cote d’ Azur.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t go to Rome, I’m saying, take it on as a tourist challenge.  You can see SO MUCH in two days if you plan ahead.  After you see the sites, then rent a car, hop on a train, and head to one of the more provincial towns (even Florence!) or the coast.  The interior of Italy is so beautiful that getting lost on a country road is actually a great day.  As for the coast, parts can be a bit touristy, but when you find a cozy hotel and stroll the cobblestone streets, you can’t help but fall in love with the provincial charm.  It feels like the movies.

The key is to talk to the locals.  They are SO friendly and enjoy sharing their culture, in particular the details of food and wine, with you.

I’ve had the pleasure of going to Italy several times and visiting Rome, Florence, Milan, Genoa, Naples, Portafino, Santa Margarita, Sorrento, and Capri.  Florence and Milan were my favorite cities to explore while Portafino and Sorrento romanced my heart.  Somehow Venice has not made it on an itinerary yet, but one day it will!

My suggestions for visiting Italy:

  1. Pick one or two major cities.  Choose between Rome, Florence, Milan, Venice.
  2. Plan a road trip and interesting destination outside of one of them.  The Tuscan countryside outside Florence was my choice!
  3. Pick a small town to be your landing spot for at least 4 days R&R.  The Amalfi coast is the most popular, but you really can’t go wrong anywhere.
  4. Plan a day trip outside of this spot.

Guides to help you plan:

 

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A THOUGHTFUL Valentine’s Day gift guide (with a great discount code!)

February 6th, 2012 2 Comments

Just when you thought the hunt for the perfect present was finally over, there’s another Hallmark holiday that strongly suggests you show your love with a gift.  What I like about Valentine’s day is that the gift(s) you give are truly about the thought, not the necessity or price tag.

Obviously I don’t know who you’re shopping for, but I thought it would be fun to offer little sentiments that might be appropriate along with items that represent them.  Make a card with the phrase and then the gift can be one of my suggestions or whatever pops into your head!

You were all sweet enough to participate and offer thoughtful gifts in January, so you’ll find those below as well.

 

My suggestion: tweet or link to this post on your Facebook so your lover will have a little guide to help him shop.

 

“Because you are my inspiration,

I want to give it back to you all year long.”



A subscription to Quarterly.com is probably the coolest idea I’ve heard as a gift idea in a LONG time. It’s thoughtful and delivers awesome gifts all year at an affordable price.  THANK YOU reader Chelsea for your recommendation!

Let me explain how Quarterly works.

For $25, you subscribe to one of their contributors you find interesting.  Four times a year they will send you a gift they love and believe you will enjoy.  The people and companies Quarterly has on board are innovaters in their space and seem incredibly interesting.  For example:

In this case, as a gift, you subscribe your friend and pick out who you think they would love.  See, it’s thoughtful, effortless, and affordable!  Click here to gift Quarterly.

 

“Because I can’t get enough of your lovin’ and cookin’”


It seems like all of you enjoy your time in the kitchen, so this rec isn’t as taboo as it used to be.

Reader recommendations:

(Image via She Knows)

“I want your beautiful eyes to only be for me!”

I am absolutely obsessed with KBL sunglasses for men an women right now.  They’re classic styles with a little unexpected color to give them an edge.  I know what you’re thinking, it’s hard to buy sunglasses for someone, but these look good on pretty much everybody. And they can always be returned.

For women I love my style – Warren’s Dancer – and the Malibu.   Sun Ghost 62 in light gold works on both men and women (this will be my next purchase).  Guys would also love a pair of Star Guitar.

PLUS I HAVE A 20% OFF DISCOUNT CODE FOR YOU!

Ask and ye shall receive sometimes!  I scored you 20% off your entire purchase.  Glasses start at $160 which is already reasonable, now you can deduct 20%.  Buy one for you and your valentine.  Or just share the code :)

At checkout simply enter MTM20 for 20% off.  Code lasts until April 1, 2012.

 

“Because it’s your favorite thing to do.”


Buy clothing or gear for their favorite activity: Lululemon for athletes, Nike or J. Lindenberg for golfers, Nike for tennis players, REI for hikers.

“My love for you shines brighter than the sun!”

 

“I want to take your clothes off and (fill in the blank).”


I guess I’m a sucker, but I always fall for a nice bottle of wine and some hot music. So you could prepare:

  • CD/Playlist of songs that turn you on
  • Basket of goodies – massage oil, CD, chocolates, candles, whipped cream, you get the idea ;)
  • Go to reputable wine store so you can get a good rec
  • Learn to make a cocktail he/she loves or you think he/she’ll like

If your music library isn’t extensive, join Rdio, MOG, or Spotify – three services that stream you unlimited music for a low monthly fee.

Let me make a recommendation here.  DON’T go out to a big dinner and drink too much before getting your groove on.  This is why I think making dinner is best because you can make something light.  Too much food makes you tired and you could fall asleep before the magic happens.  I know I don’t have to tell you, but maybe you need to hear it. :)

YOU CAN’T GO WRONG WITH THIS RECIPE FOR DINER. It’s a light and healthy chicken pot pie that is easy and something everyone loves.

(Image via)

 

“I want to do nothing else but you.”

Plan a weekend getaway at a suburban resort.  No need to get on a plane for a little weekend escape of rest, relaxation, and (fill in the blank!). These are my current favorites! Texans should also consider the Saint Cecilia in Austin and Fredericksberg Herb Farm.  Readers in Phoenix look into Intercontinental Montelucia. Florida residents click here for ideas.

 

“I’m looking forward to another wonderful year with you.”


No doubt this picture I took of Becca and her new hubby David at their Starbucks wedding will make it to a frame.  My feeling is you don’t need a big event to celebrate your love and friendship for someone.  So why are we just tagging fleeting moments instead of framing memories?!

Grab your favorite photos of your honey or friend and make a little reminder of your fun times every day.

  • Framed photo (see, this gift seems a little more interesting with the phrase attached with the fun memory you’re referrencing)
  • Shutterfly calendar** (Thanks reader Amy)

 

“I’m having the time of my life and I owe it all to you.”

 

 

Watches don’t have to be a huge purchase anymore.  There are all sorts of interesting styles at affordable price points.  Look for Nixon (above on Amazon) and Michael Kors (above on Shopbop) online.  Also shop Editor’s closet for big discounts.

Editor’s closet ALWAYS has a watch sale around holidays.  You can find some good looking styles for under $100.  Click here to see if they have one up now.

 

“YOU are truly my best friend.”


And diamonds are hers.  Not really, but it’s a fun play on words, and diamonds will make her melt.  There are plenty of discounts to be had. I know it sounds cheesy, but check out Just Jared or Robbin’s Brothers if designer pieces are too expensive.  You can always place them in a separate, unmarked jewelry bag and box when you give her the piece.  Make sure to keep the original box if it doesn’t fit or she’d like to return it.

For something more unique and affodable, browse etsy.  I found the one above for $195 in about 2 seconds.

Reader Stephanie loved these diamond in pearl earrings she got for Christmas.

 

“You can be comfortable and still smokin’ hot.”

TOM’s shoes just keep coming out with cuter fabrics and styles! For women, they’ve just released a line of ballet flats.  Guys are STILL discovering TOMS so you can get him a classic pair.  If he’s hard on his shoes, buy the style with the enforced sole.

**Thanks reader Lily!


“Because you deserve a little splurge.”

Reader/blogger Julie and I are on the same page with this recommendation.  We buy our girlfriends expensive lipglosses and candles we know they’ll love but would probably not splurge on for themselves.

In this same vein, I’m going to HIGHLY suggest Lalicious Body Scrub. I know it seems like a nothing gift, but this stuff is impressive. It’s all natural with sugar to exfoliate your skin and coconut, almond, and essential oils to moisturize it.  You feel like silk after you get out of the shower!

“Something To Accent Your Natural Sweetness.”

There’s also perfume, which we don’t often buy for ourselves.  You probably aren’t familiar with these two brands; I wasn’t before this year.  Both offer an interesting twist on fragrance.

Juliette Has A Gun from Romano Ricci.  I love “Not A Perfume” which is light, fresh, and perfect for spring.  The main note is Cetalox.  $85 on Amazon

“I am good” roll-on perfume I take with me everywhere!  They have a variety of fragrances for $30.

 

For men, instead of cologne, buy a scented deoderant.  The smell is a lot more subtle.  Barney’s has the best selection, but you have to be in the store to shop it. 

Mark Birley Deodorant Block, $28.50 @ Barneys

Malin + Goetz Eucalyptus is another good one.

“Because you like to rock out anywhere and everywhere.”

 

 

It seems like everyone is talking about his Jawbone Jambox ($199).  If you didn’t give it for Christmas like Julie (whose husband loved it), then this is a no-brainer for V-day.

 

I hope you’ve found this helpful! After the insane amount of time I’ve spent on this, I hope you see it as my little gift to you.  I love you guys.  Thank you for all of your love an support over the years.

I wish you all a day full of love. x

 

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Traveling isn’t a clean experience, but do you care?

March 25th, 2011 2 Comments

The mentalities of taking “Airborne” before a flight and sanitizing everything in your path are now colliding.

My mom and I are both of the mind that exposure to germs will keep your immune system strong.  Before hand sanitizers, we all lived healthy lives.  Although with the knowledge we have now about how many germs are coating everything we touch, I am becoming a quick draw with the hand sanitizer.

The latest concern is the cleanliness of airplane seats.  We must have realized before this craze just how dirty they are.  With different walks of life sinking into the same fabric seat for several hours there’s not telling what’s living in there!

Whatever your awareness, I’m telling you now people are getting aggressive with killing off as many germs as possible before they buckle in for a flight.  Should you get on the bandwagon?

That’s up to you.  Here is a list of options I’ve seen and heard about people doing in an attempt to travel without accumulating any extra germ baggage.

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30 Minutes of Cardio Can Make All The Difference

January 17th, 2011 No Comments

– Jeff Halevy, Our MTM Trainer

Vacation or a hectic work schedule can get in the way of your New Years resolutions if you let them.  But 30 minutes is all you need on those days to stay on track and keep your spirits up.  Getting in a little workout will even help you to maintain a healthy diet and not reach for the closest carb around you.

For this 30-minute calorie torching, metabolism revving workout all you need is a short stretch of ground to run on and a pool.

Sprinting Intervals:
8 second sprints, followed by 12 seconds of rest for clusters of 9 (3 minutes); then followed by a one minute rest. Repeat this cluster 3 times.

Treading Water Intervals:
1 minute of vigorous treading followed by 1 minute of rest for 8 rounds.

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